Ignoring spotting episodes on Mirena
9 June, 2016
I am 50 years old and have had such irregular bleeding the last 2 years that my doctor put me on the Mirena. It controlled the bleeding. Now I get a very occasional spotting every 7–8 weeks for about 3 days with slight cramps. If I wear a black panty liner, I can almost pretend it never happened. I feel guilty, like I'm supposed to wear a white pad and count 5+7 days. Is it ok to ignore these 3 days?
As long as you are not experiencing an actual flow of blood (comparable to a period), you may take precautions against becoming niddah from any staining by wearing colored underwear (or pantyliners) and waiting 15 seconds after urinating before wiping (in order to disregard stains on toilet paper).
There is no need to feel guilty about disregarding such staining. The laws of stains (ketamim) are a Rabbinic stringency added by our Sages onto Torah Law. However, in order not to overburden women and cause them to become niddah frequently from staining, the Sages built certain leniencies into these laws. Stains found on colored surfaces or on disposable surfaces (such as pantyliners and toilet paper) were never intended to render a woman niddah. Therefore, you certainly should take advantage of these leniencies to prevent becoming niddah (unnecessarily) from staining.
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