1) Bleeding following egg retrieval is considered
dam makkah (blood from a wound). Even so, it is critical to have a bedikah on day seven of the
clean days. If your procedure is on day seven, you satisfy this requirement by performing a bedikah the morning of the procedure. (If not, please get back to us.) Therefore, you should do one
bedikah in the morning before the procedure, and you may ignore the bleeding which follows and immerse as usual. Do not perform another
bedikah after the procedure!
2)
Dam makkah does not put one in
niddah. Therefore, technically you can have relations while bleeding from the procedure. We recommend taking precautions relating to staining after relations in any case, just to be sure that no questions arise. Use colored sheets, wait a few minutes before getting up, use colored towels or tissues to wipe yourselves, and don’t look for any staining.
3) Regarding
preparation for the mikveh, you may rely on a thorough shower. You can also choose to take a bath prior to the procedure and just a quick shower immediately prior to immersion. Most important, be sure to check for any
barriers carefully and thoroughly before you actually go into the mikveh.
We appreciate your thoughtful and knowledgeable questions. Even so, you might find it helpful to arrange a free consultation with a Yoetzet Halacha Fertility Counselor as you navigate treatment, details
here.
Behatzlacha!
This response was updated on 23 May, 2021.