We appreciate the sensitive nature of this question.

It is difficult to say how often surrogate motherhood actually happens in frum circles. However, it has become increasingly common for religiously observant women to pursue surrogacy. The halacha is decided on a case-by-case basis.

To discuss this further, we invite you to arrange a personal consultation with a Nishmat Fertility Counselor, a Yoetzet Halacha who has completed additional specialized training in this area. Consultations are free and can take place in person, by phone, or via internet conference.

This response was updated on 8 April, 2021.