A few years ago, I was invited to address a non-denominational group of Jewish college students on the topic of “A Jewish Approach to Love and Sex.”
As a yoetzet halacha (religious advisor on the laws of family purity) and a madrichat kallot (teacher of brides), I am comfortable talking about these topics and discussing them openly and honestly. I have no problem sharing and describing the graphic details that I hope will facilitate a loving and fulfilling intimate life.
But this audience was different. They were likely more sexually experienced than the students I usually encountered.
I wondered what I could share with them that would be meaningful.