We are very sorry to hear of your repeat miscarriages and of the emotional toll that they have taken on you.
Many of the organizations listed on our Fertility Resources page also offer support to couples experiencing pregnancy loss.
An excellent book in Hebrew is Kachalom Ya’uf, by Avraham Stav (Jerusalem: Mossad Harav Kook, 2020).To Mourn a Child, edited by Rabbis Jeffrey Saks and Joel Wolowelsky, is a fine English book, though its focus is more neonatal loss than miscarriage.
Following repeat miscarriages, a couple may use contraception for as long as is medically indicated. Emotional concerns, including worries about going through another loss, can also provide grounds for using contraception, though they require more individual attention. As questions arise, you are welcome to write back to us to follow up.
In addition to seeking emotional support, we also suggest that you raise your concerns with your physician, and ask to discuss testing and other measures to prevent a recurrence.
We wish you a refuah sheleimah, refuat hanefesh urfuat haguf, healing body and soul, and continued faith and strength.
Please let us know if we can be of further assistance.