In memory of Chaya Mirel bat R’ Avraham

In memory of Chaya Mirel bat R' Avraham

Stringent ruling from new Rav
July 1, 2026

Question

Hi, I hope all is well. I just moved to a new city. I sent in a moch dachuk to the Rav here as a question because there was the faintest light brownish pink stain smaller than a penny on it and I just wanted to be sure it was okay to proceed with sheva neki'im. Additionally, it had already been 7 days since I had become niddah. The Rav got back to me saying that the moch was not passable.

I'm very confused because I've sent moch's with larger stains and darker stains which the Rav in my former community has said is okay. I want to better understand why this Rav might have said it was not passable. Please share any insights you may have! Thank you.

Answer

Thank you for reaching out to us.

Bloody discharge on a bedikah cloth is treated much more stringently than a stain on a garment. For example, on a garment, a stain's size can be a factor for leniency, whereas on a bedikah cloth, a niddah color of any size can make a woman niddah or interrupt her clean days. The key question on a bedikah cloth is whether a given shade is a niddah color, which can sometimes be the case even for a fainter color.

Additionally, there are different received traditions for evaluating cloths passed down from rabbi to student, so that it is possible that this rav follows a different tradition than your former rav. 

All the above notwithstanding, we recommend checking in with your old rav to discuss what types of stains and bedikah cloths you might be able to assess for yourself, based on what you have shown him over the years. We also recommend speaking with the new rav to be able to understand his recent ruling better. This way, you are less likely to be caught by surprise in the future.

You might also find it helpful to see our discussion of evaluating bedikot here.

Please let us know if we can be of further assistance.
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