We appreciate the sensitive nature of this question.
While past halachic consensus was to hold off on semen analysis until after female factors have been evaluated, that has begun to shift. Our site’s rabbinic supervisor, Rav Yehuda Henkin, permits a husband to have semen analysis at the same time as his wife’s testing.
In your case, given that you have specific concerns about your husband’s fertility, it is reasonable for both of you to be tested already.
For more information, please see our site’s article on
fertility evaluation. You may also find it helpful to arrange a free consultation with a Yoetzet Halacha Fertility Counselor, details
here.
This response was updated on 4 June, 2020.