Mazal tov!
We’re sorry that we couldn’t get back to you sooner, but appreciate the opportunity to help others.
It’s fully permissible to do all of your
preparations earlier in the day, even in the morning if need be, taking care to keep them intact. Then, at the mikveh, you’d just rinse off and comb through your hair, clean your teeth, and inspect yourself.
We hope that you were able to make this work. Ducking out in the middle of an event can feel stressful, but the positive energy at coming back to it straight from the mikveh, and the message of commitment that it makes to you and your husband, may make up for the stress.