In memory of Chaya Mirel bat R’ Avraham

In memory of Chaya Mirel bat R' Avraham

Ignoring spotting episodes on Mirena
March 13, 2016

Question

Thank you for this site. I am 50 years old and have had such irregular bleeding the last 2 years that my doctor put me on the Mirena. It controlled the bleeding. Now I get a very occasional spotting every 7–8 weeks for about 3 days with slight cramps. If I wear a black panty liner, I can almost pretend it never happened. I feel guilty, like I’m supposed to wear a white pad and count 5+7 days. Is it ok to ignore these 3 days?

Answer

As long as you are not experiencing an actual flow of blood (comparable to a period), you may take precautions against becoming niddah from any staining by wearing colored underwear (or disposable pantyliners) and waiting at least a few seconds (ideally 15 seconds) after urinating before wiping in order to disregard stains on toilet paper.

There is no need to feel guilty about disregarding such staining. The laws of stains (ketamim) are a rabbinic stringency added by our Sages onto Torah Law. However, in order not to overburden women and cause them to become niddah frequently from staining, the Sages built certain leniencies into these laws. Stains found on colored surfaces, or on disposable surfaces such as pantyliners and toilet paper, were never intended to render a woman niddah. Therefore, you certainly should take advantage of these leniencies to prevent becoming niddah (unnecessarily) from staining.

Please feel free to get back to us with any further questions.

B’hatzlacha!

This response has been updated to reflect the rulings of our current Rabbinic Supervisor, Rav Kenneth Auman, regarding waiting before wiping.
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