In memory of Chaya Mirel bat R’ Avraham

In memory of Chaya Mirel bat R' Avraham

Sephardi/Ashkenazi differences in Taharat HaMishpacha
February 3, 2003

Question

What are the differences for Sefardiah women as opposed to Ashkenaziot in terms of harchakot (safsal hamitmadned, etc.)? What about taking a long shower instead of a bath before mikvah? Number of bedikot required during sheva nekiim? Waiting a minimum of four days instead of five before a hefsek tahara? Are there any others I should be aware of? Thank you in advance for your time.

Answer

The best known differences are as follows:



  • Sephardim are not particular about the couple sharing a seat that moves during niddah.


  • It is customary to take a bath as part of the chafifah. However, a woman can take a shower rather than a bath if she assures that she washes all parts of her body and washes her hair and all body folds in warm water.


  • The basic number of bedikot during the seven blood-free days is two each day. If there is a particular problem, the number may be reduced. A specific question should be asked.


  • Certain Sephardic communities require a four-day rather than five-day minimum before the hefsek taharah.


  • Women of certain Sephardic communities generally shave pubic hair prior to mikveh use.


  • In certain Sephardic communities, a woman makes the bracha on immersion while wearing a robe, before entering the water of the mikveh. She then disrobes and immerses.




  • However, “Sephardim” is a broad category that includes women from many different countries with different customs. Therefore, if trying to determine the correct behavior for a particular woman, it is best to ask a rabbi from the relevant community or provide us with more details. Furthermore, when dealing with a marriage of a couple of different ethnic backgrounds, the couple should check in with their rabbi as to which customs they may follow as a couple and which customs they may follow as individuals.
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