It is fairly common for a woman’s cycle to change in her late 30s and for there to be some residual staining from C-section scars. This type of staining need not always disrupt the
clean days, for a few reasons:
First, not all bleeding or staining is a
niddah color. Some browns are acceptable even on
bedikah cloths and thus have no effect on the clean days. For example, a light brown with no hint of a reddish tint (like coffee with milk, or lighter) may be disregarded. If you have brown stains on
bedikot (any size) or on white underwear (
larger than a gris), we encourage you to have them
evaluated by a local halachic authority. Be sure to ask if the shade in question is one you can evaluate for yourself in the future. You are welcome to contact us with your location for assistance finding a halachic authority.
Second, if the brown is a
niddah color, then it still may be possible to get through the clean days by reducing the number of
bedikot performed. In this case, we would suggest performing the
hefsek taharah and the first
bedikah of the next day (day one of the clean days). You would then omit
bedikot for the two or three days of staining, resuming them when staining subsides.
Third, staining on toilet paper need not make a woman
niddah, regardless of its color, so long as she waited at least a few seconds between urinating and wiping. For more information on this topic, please see our article “
Toilet Paper.”
We hope that the above information will help you reach the mikveh sooner, and also relieve your concerns about ovulation timing. Generally speaking, women ovulate around fourteen days prior to the onset of menstrual bleeding. Mittelschmertz can sometimes be misleading. If you remain concerned about ovulation prior to immersion, we suggest that you use ovulation stick tests to pinpoint the timing of ovulation over the next few cycles. Then please get back to us with more details to follow up. You can also learn more about ovulation prior to immersion
here.
Please feel free to get back to us with any further questions.