Not all
stains render a woman
niddah. It is definitely possible that the stain you found did not make you
niddah, and if you then checked before intercourse and were clean, you may not have transgressed at all, even though your period began the next morning.
In any case, you certainly are allowed to (and should!) observe the
niddah period and
taharah process this month. In this situation there is no difference in the process; you should observe the
five day minimum from the morning you considered yourself
niddah before counting the
seven clean days and
immersing.
Even if a woman were to transgress and engage in relations during her period or during the clean days, G-d forbid, she should still complete the
taharah process. There may be some minor changes, so an individual question should be asked.
Please feel free to get back to us with any further questions.
B'hatzlacha!