I have always used wine for the Arbah Kosos on Pesach; however I am 7 weeks pregnant now, B”H. My doctor advised me not to use wine this Pesach. We will be spending Pesach at my parents home, with other relatives, and if I were to use grape juice, it will be obvious as to my condition, which we would like to keep private until three months. What do you suggest?
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Answer
We suggest you buy a bottle or two of special, sparkling grape juice and explain that you absolutely love it and that wine makes you too sleepy or headachy to enjoy the Seder.
A reader suggests: Before yom tov, pour grape juice into a wine bottle and no one will know: Just you use that one.